Wij have a society more equal than everzwijn before, women overall have achieved equality ter many ways, yet the educated, successful woman is finding it more than challenging to find a hubby. Finding a spouse or life playmate has become almost spil elusive spil the Palos Verdes Blue. There are now more single women seeking a life playmate ter their 30’s and 40’s than at anytime te the last century.
For the SUCCESSFUL professional female overheen 35 the news is NOT so good, spil the chance of bumping into a life-partner is about spil likely spil coming across a Canadian Moose ter the Sahara desert..This is down to various factors, wij live te a digital age where instant gratification has become the standaard – casual hook-up is no longer taboo, and women are just spil likely to engage ter casual lovemaking, well at least before they want to find a lasting relationship. Wij also have the the way Studs and WOMEN are genetically programmed. And I’m afraid with all the equality ter the world that cannot erased because of the switch ter way women have sought equality. However, the relaxed treatment to hookup overheen the last 40 years has had a knock on effect for women. Add to this the career woman who has climbed the professional schop to achieve career status and financial security, most likely means she will have had to work te a fairly masculine predominated world, and whether consciously or sub-consciously she has likely picked up some masculine energies along the way. And this where she will kasstuk some hurdles when coming in into private or romantic relationships. Often the very successful woman controls a date spil tho’ she wasgoed still te the boardroom. A woman who comes across spil te control is fine a the professional strijdperk, but not when she wants to attract a hubby. This has become a mundial epidemic for SUCCESSFUL independent women. Just ask any female CEO of a large multi-national company that is single at 35 or 40 why she still hasn’t managed to find a relationship she would like. On the surface this is a ample achievement professionally, but for the woman who has spent a lifetime te a masculine orientated world she has gathered some rather masculine traits like an ornament on the mantelpiece gathers dust.
The outcome is that guys too, are facing a more challenging position when ready to find a life playmate. Women’s roles, treatment and capability to be ter control of their life has switched drastically. Dudes and women are no longer on the same path at the same time. The MOST NATURAL time to pair up is inbetween 20 and 28 because our genome programming make human beings their most sexually attractive (physically at this time) and women are their most fertile. This has switched. WOMEN no longer see marriage and having a family spil a purpose anymore, well not until they have reached the career status they set out to achieve. But, the fact is mother nature has not switched, and spil women mature and lose their initial physical power, regardless of how getraind, snugger, attractive or sexy at 40 they are, studs at 40, 45 and 50 if they want marriage, will not openly and selectively choose a woman of their own age, especially if the seek a family. So wij have two problems here, one, women who may have lost some of their softness te exchange for a successful professional role, and two, spil biologically spil able spil they are to have children at 40 or 45, studs will choose to meet a junior woman by say Ten years IF he wants children. And the fact is, he is able to do that, the more successful and attractive he is, financially stable and ready to commit, instead of his appeal to the opposite lovemaking waning, it actually grows, spil many 30-35 year old women are te a constant queue to date him spil a potential hubby, but is not true the other way around. Women of 40-45 are beginning to see how their pool of suitors has switched considerably overheen the last decade, where a man’s pool expands.
The ALPHA Masculine, tall, successful and ready for commitment!
Guys commence to be more serious about relationships around 40-45
Most successful masculines around 25-35 are still focused on climbing that professional schop to reach the top of their profession, where dating is likely to be of the casual kleintje, spil they just do not have the time or inclination to have individual requests matching their professional ones. Not all, but a greater proportion today are not te the mindset to commit, but that te part is because women have made it lighter for boys to look upon a woman he can meet up with for casual lovemaking until he determines to budge on to the next. Women have lovemaking far more readily without being te a committed relationship, women have begun to view hookup spil something they do like brushing their teeth, it’s not something that is kept spil an expression of love inbetween two people.
What I hear most from both sexes, “Most of my friends from university are married and have children, and the only single people they meet are either at work or those still on the casual dating circuit” Add to that, the fact that merienda our 20s are past, many things switch from our physical and emotional aptitude, to the amount of singles still available te our social group class. Alpha Females and Alpha Masculines may share similar professional aspirations and lifestyle, but they certainly don’t share the same priorities for a life time mate.
Do YOU think marriage is still significant?
Women are more career focused and often exude masculine energies!
Requests of career and attitude towards marriage
The OPTIMUM time for pairing is ter our twenties, when both dudes and women are at a physical and biological peak, then they are fairly equal, where they are unlikely to have had a long term relationship, or be widowed that may take it’s toll on their emotional wellbeing. Fifty years ago both studs and women eyed marriage and having a family spil a desirable objective by 25, and albeit te every other way the switches that have come about ter this last half century, has no doubt improved much for women, spil they no longer need to depend on a man for having a roof overheen their head, or anything else for that matter, but spil with everything te life, there is always a price to pay. Ter a individual and romantic sense it is finta a drawback spil women tend not to see marriage or having a family spil significant until they are past the point ter which mother nature and evolution deemed it wasgoed the right time to be married.
The most attractive, accomplished, dudes and women who seem to have it all, are still finding it challenging to meet Mr or Ms Right.
When Boys embarking looking for a wifey, he’s seeking a woman who may be a little less career focused, clinical than she comes across..regardless of whether she wears makeup or high-heeled slippers, that is NOT what makes a woman exude natural womanish qualities, it goes beyond that!
FOCUSING is Dinámico if you’re overheen 35 and you truly want a serious relationship. Let alone a mature divorcee, you can no longer sit back and hope to bump into someone who’s exactly on the same path, that is an utterly tall order.
Traditional VALUES and methods when seeking a fucking partner
Boys and women no longer live the same life spil they did 50 years ago, or even 25 years ago. Parents no longer introduce their son or daughter to friends sons and daughters ter their teenagers or early 20’s. And on top of this, wij have a society where switching playmates, sexual epistel encounters and divorce have become more accepted. Which is NOW only beginning to surface and effect how dudes look upon commitment. Work is far more requiring and lives are transient. And guys and women no longer lodge or marry for financial stability, companionship OR for the foot purpose of being married spil merienda happened and wasgoed expected.
The substantial rise of successful women has also switched the psychological and romantic outlook for women. Where their womanish qualities have bot exchanged for cooler practical goes, a driven and sometimes clinical outer to enable them to challenge and succeed te a guy’s world. Which has made some come across spil guys ter a skirt, and dudes find that unattractive, NOT intimidating.
Guys are NOT intimidated by successful women, it’s a myth perpetuated by WOMEN who think their success and intelligence is the reason they are not te a relationship. But it’s actually down to evolutionary programming!
I merienda heard a woman say ” I can eat fellows for breakfast, and still have slagroom for refrigerio, to ” Dudes are intimidated by mij spil I’m spil driven spil they are”.
Not sure how a woman thinks she is seen talking like this – even by another woman, but one thing is certain, fellows are not intimidated, they’re just not attracted to women who speak or come across like that – which does not mean a woman being subservient, but an appreciation of how studs and women who are truly the masculine and womanish opposites of each other naturally gezond together like a palm te a glove.
All fellows desire and admire slim women, te fact it is a vivo factor for initial attraction for the certain, successful Alpha masculine, but what he doesn’t find attractive is a woman who acts like she believes he’s intimidated, where she runs a date like she runs a houtvezelplaat meeting, or where she believes to demonstrate natural stereotypical womanish traits, softness, warmth, mildness, sensitivity, sensuality and a caring nature somehow diminishes hier achievements te the professional kampplaats, or panders to a boy’s view of what a woman should be.